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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello, I have a quick question. My boyfriend is 54 and lately, when I'm performing oral on him, he remains soft yet ejaculates. Also, lately, he only wants me to suck, no licking around it like he used to like and suddenly, he's been pressuring me to finger his butt. When I ask what's up, he gets dismissive and changes the subject. Any ideas on both?
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (18 March 2019):
 I agree with Honeypie, but would hope he'll see a doctor if it continues. I would also add not to do anything he pressures you into.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2019): He is at an age when ED starts showing in most men. He should take this matter very seriously because ED is an early call of some more very serious health problems such as cardiovascular desease, diabetes, and enlarged prostate. Hence the finger in the butt thing IMO. Ask him to see his doc.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (17 March 2019):
 The finger in the butt is for prostate stimulation. Makes it more pleasurable for him.
As for why he prefers "sucking" to licking.... it has a more powerful sensation and will get him off faster, I'd wager.
He wants to try something different, something new.
THAT is my guess.
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