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Why is my boyfriend such a control freak??

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Question - (9 February 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 February 2010)
A female Australia, anonymous writes:

Why are men such control freaks? I can't stand it! My boyfriend is so bossy it drives me nuts. Yet God forbid I ever make a suggestion about anything he hasn't thought about in that "brilliant" mind of his, and I am "nagging" him! WTF! How do you break a man from acting like this? Is it just short man syndrome or something? I know not all men are like this but most really are! I've just started repeating the same crap right back to him. The minute he starts trying to overmanage something I snap at him and say, "Stop nagging me!" Shuts him up pretty damn fast! But it's not my nature to be a bitch and I'm afraid I'm just going to end up resenting him later. The problem is, next guy, next control freak. They're all alike!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2010):

Errm, hate to tell you this, but most guys aren't control freaks at all. I'm certainly not. And there are a lot of friends I have who aren't as well. So dump this boyfriend and identify why it is you pick bad boys, because if you're meeting one bad boy after another, then you need to change. Most men are good men. You're picking the wrong ones.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2010):

No they are not all alike, you just keep staying with bad ones.

Most guys are NOT like this.

How to solve your problem, DUMP HIM, and if you meet a guy who starts bossing you about then dump him before he becomes your boyfriend.

If you keep wasting time on bad boyfriends then it's no wonder you don't have time to go out and meet nicer guys.

Good Luck!! xx

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