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51-59,
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writes:i split with my ex in december, he should be recieving my divorce petition this week. he was emotionally and sometimes physically abusive and also liked to damage my stuff. last time i saw him in december he damaged the body work on my car, for the first time ever i contacted the police and did a statement. the police have seen him and he denies that he damaged my car(which i knew he would), they have told him to stay away from me, which he has, and told him the case may go to court. then he has gone back to the police and still said that he hasnt done the damage but he will pay the £420 for the damage, the police are still dealing with it. i dont understand him at all, why is he offering to pay for my car, i feel like hes playing mind games with me again, anyone have any ideas?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 February 2008):
 He damaged your car's body work in a moment of anger or madness and since you reported to the police , he did not want to have trouble with the law or he regretted or have remorse over his actions.
Since it is settled, you could withdraw that police report.
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reader, Namatjira +, writes (13 February 2008):
I would say that yes he is, but probably less with you than with the cops. I guess he is trying to make sure it does not get to court, possibly because if he has a conviction for criminal damage against your property it could hurt him in the divorce proceedings.Good luck and consider mind over matter. You don't mind because he doesn't matter.
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