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writes:Ever since I hit puberty, I've been fascinated and turned on by older men. When I was 17, I lost my virginity to a 28 year old. Since then, I've only ever dated and had sex with guys at least ten years my senior. So far, I've had four partners, including one college professor (whom is older than 30 and I was 20 at the time). He is still not married.I'm now 22 with natural C-cup breasts; I'm a size five in junior's with piercings in both nipples, my tongue, belly button, nose, a few in each ear; and I have a tat on my shoulder. Can't get the "tramp-stamp" because I do want kids later on and I wouldn't be able to get the epidural.Anyways, I also have naturally long and soft red hair (it goes to mid-back) and green eyes; and am pretty turned on by my college guy friend's dad. He's 42 and I've tried flirting with him, but his son (whom is my age) gets in the way a lot. My friend is like me: piercings and tats and we listen to a lot of the same music and read the same books and hang out with the same people and blah blah blah.I just want to know why he's trying to keep me to himself; if that's his motive, I don't know. We've known each other for four years now (since freshman year of college) and I just want to know why he's trying to keep my away from his dad.Come to think of it, he's tried keeping me away from other guys as well, but now it's really starting to bug me. He says it's because he's trying to protect me... protect me from what!? His answer to that is another excuse: "He's not good enough for you." Well then, who the f*** is!? We've actually started getting into arguments lately because of this and we NEVER used to fight.Seriously, what is going on with my friend?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): Can you really be so blind?Your friend loves you. Or at least is attracted to you sexually. And for you to flirt with his father... well thats out of bounds.Not because of the age difference, but because he is the father of a friend. You never, ever screw around with the family of friends. Nine times out of Ten, it ends up badly.In you friends eyes, no one who isn't him will ever be good enough for you. You need to understand what it's like to love someone who you think will never love you back.Its horrible. You ache for that person and they never seem to read the signs and you have to watch as the person you love leans on you and trusts you, but never shows you the love you want her to.It happens frightfully often.Its something you really need to sit down and talk with your friend about.I also think you are limiting your options by only dating older men, because older does not automatically mean better. I'm just saying, keep your options open and cast a much wider net if you can.A lot of studd you need to think about and talk about.Best of luck to all of you.Flynn 24
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reader, FieFury +, writes (14 April 2009):
Well, maybe your friend likes you as a little more than a friend. Have you ever considered that? ;p
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