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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2010): It's scary because you feel like you're emotions are out of your control, it's as if your heart already belongs to him.
I'm just 13 and I can TOTALLY relate to this.
Just make sure you've studied his behavior carefully, and you know him well. That way you won't feel nearly as scared about the feelings you have for him, and remember to be prepared for him to not feel that same about you (we all know boys can be retarded sometimes lol)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2010): Maybe because it is a new feeling? So it is unknown and scary? And I guess when we care about someone and start to have feelings for them, we become quite vulnerable to being hurt by that person, so it takes a lot of trust. We don't want to be hurt by that certain someone, so we worry! We worry about what they REALLY think of us, how they really feel, whether they like us too, whether they are being truthful with us, whether it will all be okay...It can be a step into the unknown, a risk with our hearts. So in light of all that, I think it can be scary! But it may also be worth it sometimes... x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2010): It scares us because we are afraid of getting hurt and opening ourselves up. Get it right and love can be the most wonderful thing, get it wrong and it sucks.
Time is the only thing that will tell where love and relationships are concerned. Dont rush anything, take your own time and if your partner loves you they will wait.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (4 March 2010):
 Because you are so young?
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