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30-35,
*rokenNside21
writes:So me and my bf of 5 months have recently broke up a week ago and im about to go insane! I don't know what to do anymore, he was always there for me and my son, hes done more for my son then my sons father! he would come over every night.. everytime we would fight he would come over to work it out! and even when i feel like we were falling apart he stayed! well last week before we broke up he came home from cali because he had trainin to do cause he has to go back to afgh next year well ever since he got home things just didnt feel right, i just knew something wasnt right and unfortnately i was right.. he was acting suspicious over his phone so i took it from him.And so i saw downloaded nude pics of random girls in there - and as he found out i had seen them - he was walking out the door, he was leaving. i gave his phone back and he kept saying he never cheated which i knoow he never did because he never has time too.And i didnt leave him because of the pics it was because he was hiding something from me. And now he wont call me, he sometimes text me when i text him first.. but now he says he doesnt know who he is anymore and he doesnt want to come back to me until he knows who he is.And 2 nights ago (last time i heard from him) he said he and a friend are going somewhere this weekend and so now im freaking out because hes prob hooking up with some other girl and its killing me! please help! why is it so easy forguys to just act so heartless after a break up??
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 October 2011):
 Am sure he is not finding it easy either. Some men like to pretend that they don't care, considering you broke up with him am sure this is why he is doing it, not to hurt you but to just make you feel like he is not hurting. I can see that you regret the relationship being over, but he has made it clear that he needs some time to find himself again, it sounds like he is a very lost and confused man at the moment. So I think the best thing that you can do now is to stop contacting him completely. Give him the space that he needs. If it is meant to be he will come back once he has cleared his head. But for now you need to accept that it is over and that he needs space away from you. It will also be healthy for you to stop the contact as well and concentrate on building up a life for you and your son.
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