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female
age
26-29,
*kittleslover
writes:why is it that the guys i like ....always go for my bestfriends?
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (5 June 2011):
Hi there. Do you show them any genuine interest, or do you say nothing to these guys you like?
If you give no indication to them that you do like them, well then they have no clue about it. They probably think that you aren't interested at all. So you never really get to know whether the feeling is mutual.
Maybe your friends do show interest towards them and smile, talk to them and they just get in first with meeting these guys. It could be as simple as that.
Don't think of yourself as not as good as your friends, because this just isn't true at all.
When you decide you fancy some nice young guy you see, why don't you look their way and smile. Try to catch their eye. Do this whenever you get the opportunity.
Then after a while when you have looked in the direction of some nice young guy you like, for a couple of weeks, then if you see him in the school yard in between classes, in passing just smile and say "Hi". It will get easier as time goes by.
Guys do know when a girl is interested in them. Maybe you just haven't been game enough to look in the direction of someone you liked. Well, from now on try it. You have nothing to lose. You can get the ball rolling.
Just believe in yourself. Your girlfriends are not better than you - you are all equal.
Good luck with it, and best wishes.
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