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writes:I just found out my BF watches porn just about 3times a week. We have sex together about more than 5times a week and its always great. I think I am very good looking girl and I love sex .. I do whatever and I am not shy at all ... I found on his computer that he had watched especially movies w Big boobs in it (but mine are 34 D) ... I dont have problem w porn .. I am just kinda curious .. why is he watching it so often and why sometimes before he is supposed to meet up w me ... Am I not enough for him? Is he tired of me and he needs to get excited on other woman, cuase I dont get him excited anymroe? What is it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): I totaly with you on this, this is happing to me right now. We don't have sex and if we do i have to start it. He said sex isn't that imporant to him but he watches porn and have a file full of pics. I even did sexy pics of my self and that wasn't good enough, i don't think hes looked at them once. I don't know how much more i can take of this, i feel so shity, so unwanted. I don't know why i'm not enough for him. And i'm down for anything but he wont even tell me what he likes. I don't know what to do.
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reader, honeyross  +, writes (7 February 2008):
 Your boyfriend probably started watching porn a long time ago - possibly in his teens. Masturbating over the images and fantasies became a habit, and a part of his sexuality which he won't be able to give up very easily.Porn probably used to be a substitute for sex, but now it's become something that combines with sex to make it more intense for him. A lot of women worry about porn meaning they aren't 'good enough' etc., but actually I think a lot of men just get even more turned on by their partners if they get a bit of extra visual stimulation first. He probably fantasizes about doing to you what he sees on the screen.Being open with him about it will mean that he won't try to hide his habits. I think three times a week is within the normal range and nothing to worry about. If sex together starts becoming a lot less frequent, and he starts preferring porn, then there's a problem.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (7 February 2008):
 Hi,
don't worry about it. As long as your sex life is still going strong you have no worries. A lot of us guys get very stimulated watching porn ( and a lot of girls for that matter to ). We often watch it as a precusor to sex to get us really geared up. I like watching girls with big boobs and my wife likes watching guys with big dicks its all harmless and we reap the benefits in the bedroom.
Maybe you could watch some porn with him?
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reader, shazman1984 +, writes (7 February 2008):
TRUST ME! Its definitely not you! If a guy is hanging around and he's bored, he'll watch porn. He could be dating a supermodel who he sleeps with 10 times a week... and he'll still watch porn! Just look at it as TV for him. Also, I doubt he has any problems with your breast size just because he's looking up women with gargantuan ones. Him watching porn is harmless. However, if it does bother you, you need to let him. Heck, I myself watch porn, and if it bothered my loved one, id stop easily. Anyway, i wouldn't worry too much sweetie. If anything, just talk to him and tell him how you feel.
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