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writes:I dated my long-distance boyfriend for four months. His friend told me two days ago that he has had another girlfriend where he lives the whole time. I dumped him when I found out. I know who the girl is. Should I try to contact her and tell her? Nobody deserves to be cheated on and anyone who is unfortunate enough to be cheated on deserves to know, right? HELP ME! Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 February 2008):
 Why should she believes you ? If somebody you don't know come to you and claimed your b/f is cheating. How would you take it? To believe him/her just on that statement alone or would you do some little investigation first.After that you can ask him about it and hear his views.
That would be fairer than some hearsays or rumors and you will be the loser if the story is untrue .
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (7 February 2008):
 Hi there,
yes this is a tough one for sure. I'm tempted to say yeah go for it, let her know what a cheating scumbag he is. But these things are never easy, for one unless she is a close friend he will most likely tell her you are a pyscho who is obsessed with him and won't leave him alone. He will be on the defensive big time and will pull out all stops to save his sorry arse. So you really don't want to be dragged into a situation where you are still involved with this guy's life like this.
On the other hand she may be very grateful that you saved her precious time going with a cheating bastard. You should thank his friend that he let you know, and maybe his friend might just let his other girlfriend know as well.
Its a tough call mate, maybe wait a week or two to let the anger subside and then make your decison, you may just think he isnt worth it. And lets face it , cheaters are cheaters he will get caught out eventually, he won't be able to help himself.
Good luck meeting someone more faithful - they do exist!
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