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41-50,
anonymous
writes:im close friends with a guy who i adore. ive been a great friend to him and the other night we were talking and i got onto the subject of dating. he said in order for him to date me he would have to feel chemistry. i was shocked as we've been pratically joined at the hip at work and he said hes enjoyed my company and im good looking. i was really upset. then he said he hadnt been out enough with me socially to tell. now hes rubbing my nose in it by pretending to date a girl he met on facebook. i know shes added him as a friend and they chat on messenger but we live in the uk she lives in the states and shes 23-hes 40 and from her profile its clear theyre not dating yet he keeps feeding me stories of how shes been round his house ? and other weird stuff. why is he doing this ?
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reader, spinnaker  +, writes (22 May 2011):
 A+B does not always equal C. That describes his feelings toward you.
It seems you suspect that his Facebook Girlfriend is a fraud? If that is the case it would seem your friend shows all the signs of a manipulator/ emotional abuser. If you feel your strings being pulled as yourself if you want to be with someone who enjoys these types of hobbies.
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reader, Christinaa +, writes (21 May 2011):
 I think he's a tease. I think he knows that you cant have him and he loves it! So instead of sharing a good relationship with you, he tries to find a young good looking girl to play the part of "my hot but not GF" i can't find any other reason why he would make an act of that kind of situation. In the end i'm sure you could have better. So stop stressing on him and move on :) good luck
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