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writes:hello everyone, please I need some advices from you, I am in a relationship with a guy 3 years older than me, I am 21 years old, we have been together for about five years now, he knows that I love him I show him my love in every possible way, I know that he loves me but how can I be sure? I am in a critical periode of my life and he knows how much I need him, but I feel him moving away from me, I don't know what's wrong, our relationship is falling apart and I m tired of calling him asking what's wrong, he said he has family issues, it's true I have checked, but it's not a reason to escape from the girl who has always been on his side, how can I know for sure what's going on? should I discuss breaking up with him? I really need a way out..
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for answering;I think I will give him some space and try not to think of the worst (him being with an other girl) ..but really this situation right now is killing me, he's far from me and I don't want to force myself on him ??? really depressing..
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2011): well sweetie i'm pretty much going through the same thing and my best answer for you is the same best answer for me well what i was thinking of doing anyway sit him down and try to talk to him ask him questions i mean if you feel like he's pulling away from you ask him and see what he says.if you think he wants to break up with you ask him and if he does'nt respone to that then you know thats not the problem but i clearly suggest that you both sit down and talk about the situation and if he refuses to that then you need to do what you need to cause every body deserves to happy.
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reader, Romanilove  +, writes (18 May 2011):
You say you need a way out but you say u love him and don't want to pull away? The only way to fix this situation is to stand your ground and give him space. You should use other support groups for now - like your friends and family.
He will come to you when he is ready. Don't force the situation. If he gives u an explanation that satisfies you of his "pulling away behaver"listen to him. If he doesnt you may be considering if he is really making u more sad than happy.
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