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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Why is he not sharing anything about him? Okay, this guy I met in tinder we matched. We exchange our phone number and he WhatsApp me. The thing is a rarely text me if I reply he will take too long reply (sometime 6 days long). When I ask he said he is busy with his work. He is an army.So we have been texting almost a month. But he didn't ask anything about me. All he is what am doing that's it. Whenever I asked about him, his answers are short and feels like he not interested in answering me. We never had serious talk he only texts me fun stuff. He even didn't ask me out even though I'm staying quite near him.So a few days back I asked for his Instagram and lied to me he said he is not using it. But I know he does have it and his account is private. I asked one of my pen pals to followed him (we don't follow each other so it doesn't look like I'm stalking him) and she told me that he doesn't post anything about girl (so clearly he isn't having girlfriend in his Instagram)So why he is doing this? I know he isn't interested in me then why he bother to text me?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (14 June 2017):
 He probably gives out his number to lots off girls, honestly he sounds shady, I would delete his number and forget about him.
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reader, N91  +, writes (4 June 2017):
 Come on, be serious here.
If someone is interested in another person do you honestly think they would take 6 days to reply?
He isn't sharing anything with you because he DOES NOT want to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2017): It's social media. People just like to make friends and sometimes getting introduced and exchanging a few pics and a little chat is all they want to do.
If he isn't interested in you in a romantic-way, he is going to treat you like a friend. That means he will not answer any questions or respond to messages. Just say hello now and then.
Just because you don't see evidence on social media, doesn't mean doesn't have a girlfriend; or he doesn't keep a private account away from ladies who try to spy him out.
If he's a soldier, he is not always easily accessible. He has to do his duty.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (2 June 2017):
 Why are you even asking these questions? The guy has made no effort to get to know you or to let you get to know him. You have been texting for a month with nothing moving forward. NOBODY is so busy they can't reply to a text for 6 days. He is just not bothered.
You are worth more than this. Wish him well and move on to find someone who will make an effort.
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