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writes: I have been seeing this guy for five months now and I have met his family and his son and he has met my kids and we have spent holidays with him and his family Yet every time it's going good he just ups and disappears he stops talking to me for a week or two.Then later he tells me he loves me and wants to get married and wants me to have a baby with him when were together.So why does he just disappear every so often with no call or text? Also why does he get mad when I tell him let's just be friends or fwb? Also why does he get so jelouse when guys write stuff on my facebook when he is the one that stops talking to me? Also why does he keep me as his friend on Facebook but stops talking to me for a week or two?
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reader, NORA B +, writes (9 January 2013):
Sounds like he is living a double life style and getting away with it at the moment. Ask him straight out for answers and be quiet firm him. His behaviour is quiet odd and very unfair.If he refuses to answer you do consider saying goodbye to him.You are worth so much more . Best Luck. Nora B.
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reader, kenny +, writes (5 January 2013):
Yes its quite odd behaviour, i would want to know where he goes and what he does in this space of time. When you say he disappears with no call or text, is he unobtainable if you try to call him, via text, phone, and facebook?. If he is then there is something off with this guy. You have been seeing him for five months now, people should not just drop off the face of the earth for the odd two weeks here and there. If it were me alarm bells would be ringing here, i would be inclined to give him a wide berth to be honest, maybe you go quiet for a couple of weeks and see what happens. Somethings just tells me he's upto no good, i feel if it continues you should drop him and find someone else.
Good luck
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