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writes:Help me please?So I have known this guy for a while we volunteer together and recently he has changed the way he acts around me we often spend most weekend away at courses together and on the last weekend at a night out at the pub he kept looking at me.When we changed seats he asked me to sit in the booth and he sat beside me he sat at an angle so his leg was touching mine and on the walk back he waited on me and walked beside me the whole way.The following day he was strange.He kept finding ways to play hit me and give me short shoves, but over the last few weeks I have seen more.He is always finding ways to touch my arm or when he is with other people he likes to carry on with them and always looks to see if I’m watching I’m not sure if he’s is just being nice? please help Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (2 June 2015):
 I would guess he fancies you but have no clue what to do, so he acts like a 5 year old on the playground, hitting and shoving you. (which I find very inappropriate by the way and if I were you I'd tell him to frigging quit with the hitting and shoving, THAT is NOT how you show a person you like them!)
It's like when a mom/dad tells their daughter that the kid who keep pulling her hair LIKES her! It's STUPID. It should NEVER be OK for someone to do things TO you (like hitting or shoving - even in jest) to show affection.
My question to you is, are you OK with him CONSTANCY finding ways to touch you?
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