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writes:I met this guy 2 weeks ago, we saw each other a few times in one week, we had long makeout sessions, he seemed to be interested in me but for the last week hes been standing me up and not answering or returning my calls i find it weird that hes doing that cuz when i do get to talk to him he acts like he really likes me and i felt a connection with him why do you think hes acting like this? Reply to this Question
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (21 March 2008):
 Sure does sound familiar. I agree, don't contact him again. If he wants you, he knows where to find you. I agree that there is a reason he's holding back. Could be nothing at all to do with you and totally him. But if you keep calling, it will have everything to do with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2008): If you want this guy stop chasing him. There should be no phone calls. Its OK to call him once but if he doesn't call back do not, do not call again. Let him miss you, think about you, pursue you. Who knows why, it doesn't even matter though.
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reader, natasia  +, writes (20 March 2008):
 There's some reason why he doesn't want to go ahead - he's probably got a girlfriend. I'm afraid sometimes they give out these positive vibes, but just don't want to take it any further. You have to let him call you. I know it's a hard fact to accept, but if he wants you, he'll pursue you. Not answering or returning your calls is the opposite - it means he doesn't want to pursue it. Sorry, but I think that's the case. See what happens, but don't build up your hopes or obsess about it. The first week was nice, but he's got some reason for holding back. Let me know when you find out what it is! : )
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