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writes:I met a guy in a club a few weeks ago, we had been eyeing each other up all night and eventually got chatting. At the end of the night he walked me to my taxi, asked for my phone number and said he would be in touch the next day. I thought it was too good to be true because he was so gorgeous, but sure enough the next day I got a message, much to my delight! We were constantly texting for a couple of weeks before we met up again and had a really good night out together. For a few days after, we were in touch a lot again and he suggested that the next weekend we were both free I should go round to his, which I was very happy about! But then every thing seemed to slow down, I text him one night, got a reply, sent one back then heard nothing from him. I left it a few days then text again but got no reply what so ever, I then tried again a week later, when I was out, to see if he was out and about at all but still heard nothing back. It's now been over 2 weeks since I heard from him but I don't understand what changed because one minute he seemed to be making all the first moves and now suddenly I'm getting completely ignored! Anybody ever experienced anything like this? Or could give me any idea as to what might be going on?!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (6 March 2010):
 He could have saw or discovered something about you and it was not agreeable with him and he switched off.
He has got a new target.
He could be very busy or off to some faraway trip.
He could be sick or met with an accident.
His phone could be lost or in the workshop or he changed to a new phone.
He could be withdrawing to test your love.
Those could be the probabilities.
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (6 March 2010):
There's all sorts of possibilites, and it's quite common. Has happened to me before and pretty much all of my girlfriends. If he was pretty intense at first and kind of dropped off the face of the earth after the second date, I agree that he may have decided he wasn't as interested or there's a new girl or the ex girlfriend shows up.
However, from my experience and many other's...they always come back. So don't call/text him again, he'll more than likely show back up unexpectedly weeks later either acting like nothing happened or hopefully with a good excuse and apology. That's when the ball is in your court and you can either act like you're okay with him acting like a douche or you can just move on. More than likely you'll talk to him if he does make contact, but don't be too quick to make plans with him; otherwise, he'll know he has you wrapped around his finger.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (5 March 2010):
 He could have lost his phone, was after sex but figured it was taking too long or was too much trouble, found someone else, had honorable intentions but realized you two weren't a good match or didn't have good chemistry... who knows. But I highly doubt that him ignoring you is accidental. You did only really spend two nights together, (texting is rubbish when it comes to chemistry) and a lot can happen in two dates. I'd just shrug my shoulders and move on. His loss.
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