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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Since we moved into our new house (5 months ago) the sex is different. In a sense it's better (more intense). He's more commanding, like once he was on top and said kiss me but played hard to get which was fun, or another time I was on top and he really refused to kiss me and he wasn't playing. This hurt my feelings because I don't know why he would reject me like this. Now he rejects any of my efforts by ignoring me or gropes me when it's not appropriate (in front of the kids, in the front yard, in public) and when I tell him to stop he doesn't. It's disrespectful. We sometimes would play around like that, but when it was an appropriate time. Why does he act like this all of a sudden? Rejecting my advances is not a new thing so I've learned to take things into my own "hands" or else I'll be miserable waiting for him. Which he has always taken care of himself in that way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2008): So you know that he is "pleasuring" himself and, from what you said, so are you, instead of having sex?
If so the reason is obvious, he is bored. He makes innapropriate gestures and gropes as a way of trying to make things "less dull".
I have been there, he is bored with you sexually and you need to figure out a way to be more sexually attractive to him without it looking or sounding like you are nagging.
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Stella
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reader, im_a_dummy +, writes (7 November 2008):
 i am really not sure... did u move to a new area? or just a new house??? maybe he doesnt like the area... or maybe he is.... idk, but it could just be a guy thing, we moved april 2nd and my brother ever since we moved has been more of a jack ass then normal.... not sure why....
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