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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes: I have a crush on a married man who flirts and texts..He is always asking about me and my marriage...Why?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): Well, he went from being flirty to acting like I dont exist!!! Why do men act like this? Is it true that men cannot be friends with women they are attracted to? We were friends before the flirting started and have to see each other from time to time.....How do I handle this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2011): There's this married guy on Facebook who kept asking me about my lovelife. It then lead to him asking me to meet him for a night out. It then moved on to him 'wanting a piece of me'. All this despite the fact that I have a wonderful husband!
This guy is asking you because he is looking for a way to get you into bed, trust me.
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reader, dianef +, writes (20 March 2011):
Surgarbuns,,,you are right,,,He never talks about his marriage...I have asked him why he is always asking about my life and never talks about himself..He says he wants some mystery...LOL...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2011): Working you up to get you into bed. That's all, the first poster hit it right on the head.
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reader, Kilcardy +, writes (20 March 2011):
Because he's hoping he can get you to start complaining about your husband. It's all part of the "emotional affair" routine that is almost a cliche by now. Do yourself a favor, get out of this situation NOW. You are endangering your marriage and emotional health for nothing more than a mind-fuck. It's not worth it. Just take a look around this site for all of the good advice regarding these extremely harmful and painful entanglements.
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reader, Sugarbuns +, writes (20 March 2011):
Maybe he's hoping you're unhappy and you'll be interested in an affair, but I notice he doesn't share any details about his marriage and where it's going in the future. Don't fall into the trap of being his woman on the side simply to supplement his boredom, while he continues to go home to little unsuspecting wifey every night.
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