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writes: Hi everyone!I need some advice on this situation - broken up for more than one year - he cheated and lied a lot. Kept in touch/contact. I was in his city with some friends this weekend and he insisted on meeting. So we did meet for dinner with my friend - but no conversation. I don't understand - why insist on meeting me when you have nothing to say? Why ask me to stay when you are just going to go out for a party with your friends? He does nothing anymore but make me sad when I do see him. What to do now? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (25 October 2008):
Stop seeing him.
If he still is holding a grudge, or is not over you then just don't see him. You can't stay friends with them all.
Good Luck!! xx
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2008): You need to cut him out of your life totally! He is just bringing you down. he likes to keep you on a string in case he ever wants you back. But that should not be good enough for you. Do you really want to be someone's second choice?? Cut all ties girl its the only way you can move on with your life!
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2008): Maybe he wanted to meet with only you. Maybe he felt uncomfortable talking with you, while your friend was there.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2008): Maybe he couldn't open up w/ your friend sitting there too. Or maybe he was nervous. Writing a letter to you may be easier.
How do u know he is just going to hang out with friends?
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