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writes:i have been with my b/f for over 3and a half years and he told me yesterday he didn't want a long term relationship with me anymore. i have recently moved house and live with my son, who has mental health problems. a year ago i asked my b/f if he could see us living together. he said he could eventually and i was happy with that.when i got my new house, he started talking about moving in and getting a mortgage together. this came from him not me, although that's what i wanted too. we both agreed that it wouldn't work at the moment as he struggles with my sons illness.my b/f has a drinking problems and it seems as if lie gets too much for him. we have always got on and rarely had a cross word.i don't understand whats changed. please hep Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (31 May 2010):
Given that he has his own problems, I'd suggest that he's avoiding having to confront his problems and rather than deal with them, he's just running away. I think since he has drinking problems, this may be the better thing. I don't think he ever wanted a committed relationship. I think he just wants to do his own thing. Focus on yourself and your son, and live your own life. The right man will come along.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2010): If you know any of his close friends they will spill the beans. This would be a big enough deal that he would have told someone the reason.Guys tell their friends just to get feedback.
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