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writes:Hi' I wrote a year ago about husband and secrets revolving his mother, money. We still fight occasionally,usually about our families. On whole we seem like we're a lot closer-lots of intimacy,bubble baths, We,e talked over a lot of issues.Other than work (And his hunting a few times a year). I can't shake feeling that he is cheating or at least something isn't right. I don't know what to do. What are usual signs that a husband is straying for those who have really been cheated on by a spouse. I need answers. My therapists thinks I'm reading way to much into innocuous remarks and situations, My sister thinks I'm paranoid!!!
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reader, Shanpe  +, writes (1 September 2009):
Hi. It's a general rule of thumb that our gut reaction is often correct. Without knowing what innocuous remarks you refer to - I would say that changes in his demeanour, e.g. being 'distant' toward you, changing his routine, maybe buying new clothes and working out more, using after shave more frequently, hiding his mobile phone or keeping it on him at all times etc etc are all signals that he is keeping something from you - but this is the man you love and know. If he has strayed before perhaps you already know the signs? If you think he may be stressed because of work, worried about something to do with his family, do try and have a -calm! - discussion just ask him if you can help in any way - does he want to discuss anything that is troubling him. I wish you all the very best - feeling paranoid or confused is absolutely awful, so the quicker you sit him down and ask him, simply, if there is anything wrong, then the better. Good luck!!
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