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anonymous
writes:I was wondering why my ex boyfriend.. [he broke up with me a year ago because he wasn't feeling it so much anymore, but we've been talking and flirting and stuff in school (I'm now 18, he's now 17) etc... but not really spoken to him during the summer holiday we've just had] ..would bother to email me saying... "Subject: ................. loli dont reply to anyone at all, i never doim never on beboor MSNim just notso go aheadblock me."... ten whole days after I blocked him and sent him a message on bebo that said:"Subject: I'm blocking youIt's like you never reply to me anymore and it makes me feel like you've got something against me... even if you haven't. I can't be assed to have a go again about how you forgetting to reply makes me feel crap -.- so I'm just gonna go ahead and block you, cos at least then I'll know that the reason you don't reply is because you can't."I figured after a week that he probably wouldn't reply once he'd found the message because he probably wouldn't care enough to... So I was fairly surprised to see his email in my inbox.I haven't replied because I wouldn't know what else to say other than "Uhm, I already blocked you..." which is a bit pointless.The last time I mentioned his ignoring me was back in Easter, and I called him a gimp for it. He replied back then, again as soon as he found the message, saying sorry for making me feel like that and that he didn't mean to ignore me, and asked me what I'd been upto and everything... I dunno. Maybe he's just grouchier lately because he did crap at his A levels and has to redo this past year again in school =/Also found it quite weird that, when I asked his mate for advice on rejecting dudes without bruising their egos, his mate thought I had asked him specifically because he assumed the dude in question was my ex... It actually wasn't. I was asking so I'd be prepared to deal with over eager guys in uni during Freshers etc. But yeah. An outsider's view would be appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMmm.. heh. He is being an idiot. Should I have even bothered sending him a message telling him why I was blocking him? Not sure if I should have just blocked him and left him to wonder why I wasn't there anymore.
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reader, Aunty Em +, writes (1 September 2008):
 That boy of 17 still hasn't grown up yet!
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