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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hello. i just have a kind of weird question to ask you all! first of all i consider my self being a good looking guy, i have dark features and i get compliments about my look and my charme. but the thing is. i dont feel like i get so much female attention, when im around somewhere, girls look at me but like i dont feel like there is something. its not like when a guy sees a nice looking girl and he keeps looking at her, i just wonder why idont get that.. seriously sometimes its frusrtating also when igo clubbing and i see a nice girl and i go talk to her but she just rejects. im always thinking whats wrong with her !! or myb is it just me !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2011): I don't know who gave men the idea it is ok to openly stare at women, because it is certainly not. I find it incredibly rude and offensive, and the only thing I think about such a man is "creep!". You seem to think you look like Adonis or something when you expect girls to look at you. Has it ever occurred to you that maybe you are not as attractive as you think you are? Come back to Earth and maybe you will meet a nice girl.
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reader, shrodingerscat  +, writes (21 October 2011):
 Girls are socialized in today's culture to not be forward when they're interested in someone. It falls to the man to peruse the woman.Unfortunately there's no getting around it. You're just going to have to be the assertive one and start talking to women you're interested in more often, and be prepared for a lot of rejection.
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