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How can I make sex more fun?

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Question - (19 November 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 November 2009)
A female Trinidad and Tobago age 36-40, *kboss writes:

I am thick and i am a little shy at times so my main question is how to ignore shyness and just let loose when having sex with my boyfriend? I also want to know how to make our sex relationship more fun. What can i do to show the real me because i am very freaky and i love sex so most likely i am just studying my size while having sex. So please give me some advice I need it..

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2009):

Your not at the doctors, he's not looking at your body to give you an examination. Youre thinking to much.. Stop all thinking and use your other senses. Your guy is smelling you, he's feeling the softness of your skin, he's listening to your breathing, and licking the sweat off your skin. You should be doing the same thing. Listening, tasting, smelling... instead of thinking about weight like your going on a diet or trying a new dress on.

If you can't turn off your brain, well put on some hot sexy music and listen to the words and concentrate on that instead of what size you should be.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (20 November 2009):

DoubleM agony auntIf you are "very freaky" and love sex, then we must presume that you have also been fairly adventurous. But without knowing what kinds of activities you are comfortable doing, how can we possibly suggest what you can "do to show the real" you? Additionally, do not worry about size if your boyfriend is happy with you, but walking a mile or two a day can do wonders over a period of time.

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