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reader, lena +, writes (14 January 2007):
 i was the same. its nothing to do with her hiding something she will just be mega nervous. once she sees them she will feel fine, but the bit leading up to it is awful. she may feel the same for a few more times but she will eventually get used to it!
good luck *hugs* xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2007): I doubt she is hiding something...i was scared to meet my boyfriends parents for the first time, and even though they were really nice and made me feel welcome i still felt uneasy around them because i wanted so bad to make a good impression...give it time...
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2007): I agree with india's advice. And that also could be the reason why, sometime parents only want the best for there child and she wants to make sure you can handle meeting them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2007): Hey!
Nah she's probably just scared incase she makes an idiot of herself or something! i know i was the same, infact even after i had met my ex's parents i still didnt want to see them! Its stupid but scary at the same time!
She will meet them, but it will be wen she is ready to, dont try and force her to or you'll find out it will just make her not want to meet them even more!
Good Luck !!
xx
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (14 January 2007):
 Maybe she is. But I'll bet it's because she's scared to death. I know I didn't want to meet my boyfriend's parents... not because I had anything to hide, but because the whole notion was completely nerve-racking.
Of course, when I finally did meet the parents, it wasn't that bad. But everything leading up to it was horrible. I was scared out of my mind. I'll bet she's just nervous.
I would suggest to first go out to dinner together. Just dinner, so that she only has to endure two hours. Then all the scariness will fade away after meeting your wonderful parents and she'll be ready to hang out with them more often.
xxIndia
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