| A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: This is kinda long.. My bf split up with me just after new years, we're still good friends... but i'm having trouble getting over him because i loved him so much. my friend's think that i should just let him go but i don't know what to do, he said that the exams in june were stressing him out, but he told me the other day that he got asked out and that he likes the girl. this upset me because i'm still in love with him. Everyone at school think's that i'm seeing a lad that i walk to school with on the mornings but there is nothing happening. i've tried explaining to my ex that there's nothing going on between us but he won't take any of it. Also tonight i think i was being too flirty with this lad that i walk to school with. my other friend that was there with us though that we were doing stuff. there's nothing going on between us. it's really hard for me because i don't want to lose my ex as a friend but also i'm not sure if i'm ready to go back into another relationship because i've got college ahead of me and a whole life to live, but i want to settle down with someone already.also, i talk to americans a lot on the computer.. and i've started getting feelings for this one lad who lives over there but i know there's no point because i'm never gonna meet himi'm just really confused about everything.. any tips and stuff would be helpful =] thanks in advance for answers. x
View related questions:
flirt, my ex, split up Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, cd206  +, writes (14 January 2007):
 To be honest it sounds to me like the american and the guy you're walking to school with is you trying to find a rebound guy because you're worried about your ex getting together with someone and you being by yourself. By your own admission you're not over your guy so take some time and don't even think of moving on until you're ready. You owe it to yourself and your next boyfriend to be over the last one before you start going out with them. It seems to me that your ex is being very insensitive by bringing up stuff about girls he likes in front of you. It's ok to tell him you'd rather not know about it! As for still having feelings for him, that will fade over time. Just give yourself some space and do things that make you happy with your friends to distract you in the meantime. Hope this helps.
CD
A
female
reader, Lillia +, writes (14 January 2007):
 Heya.... Well it could be an idea to take a brake from boys for a while. that way you can still be mates with your ex and the boy you walk home with. Then see how it goes .x
Good Luck
xx
...............................
|
