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Why doesn't my ex want to be a friend or a lover?

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Question - (22 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 September 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Why does he find me so repulsive?! I've loved this guy for 4 years. He always was such a flirt and a player and we liked each other for two years, and dated for about 2 weeks when he broke up with me in text and I never replied. I was crushed. I hated him and loved him at the same time. A year after he broke up with me, he moved away to somewhere. I found him on facebook and friend requested him and he accepted me and deleted me on the same day! And I got his number and had to tell him I how I felt. I told him I loved him. And he said, "OMG No You dont." And I basically stalk-texted him, and he blocked me, and I anonomously called him and he started to answer and insult me but not angrily or emotionally. And I told him he was gay and he mimicked me. And that's when I thought he might still care. He told me he loved me. We were each other's first loves. So why does he not want to be together, or even friends?! I tried being friends but he doesn't want to be friends or lovers.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (22 September 2009):

Would you believe it. A man who has done the right thing! He's done you a huge favour by not wanting to remain friends or lovers. I'm going to be a bit blunt, so this might hurt. Quit stalking him, he's moved on. You must move on too. there are a lot of other guys in the world, and one of them is waiting fo you! Find him instead.xx

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A female reader, QuirkLady United States +, writes (22 September 2009):

QuirkLady agony auntPeople don't stay friends with people who stalk them.

Love isn't always reciprocated. Everybody has a story about loving someone who didn't love them back. Move on and, um, stop with the stalking because that NEVER works.

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