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*iaBabe
writes:Hello all!I Have a quick question ...My best friend lives about 10 mins away, she has a car and I don't @ the moment. Not until January, ( almost done saving up) I'm so happy I can sing And dance all day. But when I say lets go hang out or have fun she says ok but we never go. She has a boyfriend so she will say she don't have to go out or she has a man ect.. so I never get mad because its not my car I just say ok cool. So When my other best friend comes, she stay like 45 mins away she has a car also. So me and my other best friend who stay 45 mins away we will plan something and my best friend with the boyfriend all If a sudden want to go out with us. Like everywhere we go she wants to come. Like if I say we going to go Guy shopping she says I guess but She still comes. Because I don't mind dating right Now but why don't she want to do things until my other best friend comes into town? Is it me? I asked her and She says I'm in love now so I want to spend time with my man?! I don't get it?!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 October 2011):
 Could it be possible that maybe she doesn't have the money for fuel for her car? Is there anything you can both do together that doesn't involve driving at the moment? I think you need to talk to her about this because it is obviously getting you down so tell her how you feel. Ask her why she doesn't want to hang out with you alone any more, if she uses the excuse that she is in love well then tell her she needs to make an effort with her friends as well or else she will end up losing you. It is her choice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2011): SHe probably just sees it as more of a big thing when your other friend is in town. You are very close so she can see you any time but your other friend is too far for that. She might be, imho, taking you for granted. If she keeps saying no to hanging out, stop inviting her. Treat her the way shes treating you. SHe will figure it out.
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