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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Okay so I have reached my breaking point! My boyfriend and I live together. His mom and brother live like 30 minutes away. Any way. Every weekend when he gets paid he goes stays with his mom and brother we never do anything except just go out to eat which is getting boring. Instead he gives me money to do what I want. I feel like he Just gives me money so he don't have to spend time with me. He dont understand that i don't want money I Just want his time for us to go out and do things. Together. I'm home alone every time he gets paid. The only time he stays with me on weekends is when he has no money. Even tho we are dating I feel alone and single. Would it be best for me to break up with him since ive tried talking to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2013): He sounds more like a roommate. He doesn't seem connected.
Maybe living together was too premature in your relationship.
Once you're living together, you can't just walk away. From what you describe; he's slowly pulling away.
It might be time for you to find another place to live, or to move back home temporarily. Your boyfriend has lost interest in you. It is time to consider a breakup; so you can move on and start your recovery.
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