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Why does this happen to me?

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Question - (5 June 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 June 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i am a man in his 20s and was wondering why whenever i feel the horniest before sex i perform the worst?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008):

This only hapens when you're really horny? Or do you find it a little hard to come when you're not extremely horny?

I think you'd be best going to see your GP and getting checked to make sure there are no underlying reasons as to why this happens to you.

You could also search for an agony aunt on my friends list called Peter Pan, he may be able to help you at little better than I. There is also an agony aunt called Uncle Sneaker, who I think is good at dealing with these issues.

Good Luck. x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

i mean that i cant come and i dont stay hard longer enough about 15minutes,the main problem i have is that i dont come quick enough and i want to,i hate going 30 and even 60 minutes withoout coming its not a good thing

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008):

What do you mean when you say you preform worst?

Do you mean you come really fast?

You don't spend much time pleasing the other person?

You can't control how body moves and you feel it is not what the other person wants?

Or something else?

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A female reader, Tremor Australia +, writes (6 June 2008):

Tremor agony auntPerhaps because you're so desperate for it, you forget about all the other parts and just go straight into penetration?

Or perhaps it's performance anxiety?

There could be a bunch of reasons - I'm not a bloke, so I can't really say. Just relax and try not to get too horny until you need to.

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