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writes:there is this guy who i hooked up last year. i considered us to be friends although i had only known him for a week he was always really nice to me. i liked him but found out that he only wanted to have sex with me but i didnt let him. i guess he got mad and stopped talking to me. i would see him around everywhere and i was so awkward because he wouldnt even say hi. i heard he got what he wanted from some girl and i got a boyfriend too but recently broke up with him. now, a few months later, he is being really nice to me again out of the blue. should i be nice to him too or not take him seriously? does he want to be friends and move past the awkwardness or is he just trying to get in my pants again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): I suggest yo greet him, but other then that avoid him, you know already what he is about, why would you want to get to know him better or have a "fling" or even relationship with him, if he does not get what he wants, the same will happen again. Get him out of your mind, he will only hurt you. I suggest you stop thinking about him, and see him but "don't see him".
Don't make any efforts to be friendly, or that can give him ideas that you are interested.
Good luck!
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (6 June 2008):
 Be nice to him by all means - be friendly to him, have a conversation. It pays to be friendly to all people, regardless of history. But be wary of this lad.
It may be that he wants to be friends again - but since this is all out of the blue, there's always the possibility that he just wants some ass. If this does prove to be all he's after, distance yourself from him. Say 'hi' when you see him, but make it clear he's blown it.
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