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writes:Im confused....why has this affected me so much? Basically, a man I slept with a couple of years back I have just found out that him and his gf of a year are expecting a baby. Instead of being happy for them, Im wishing it wasnt true and I havnt thought about nothing else all day. I dont have any feelings for him anymore although when I slept with him I liked him alot but he didnt want a relationship. Why am I feeling like this? Im friends with his gf on facebook and im even considering deleting her as a friend cos all the "congrats" messages on her wall are really starting to get to me. What is wrong with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry, I have to disagree, i really dont have feelings for him anymore. And I do know his girlfriend quite well and I also know him well. Just because I just slept with him doesnt mean I dont actually know him.
Emilysanswers I think you may be right though. At the moment I have nothing exciting happening in my life. I have a very stressful job which I work almost 50 hours a week and have found that lately I have no social life and havnt seen my friends for months. I think this may be why I feel like this.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (3 February 2009):
You obviously don't have a lot going on in your life at the moment in terms of big drama, so his is making you realise that.
Rather than letting this feeling affect you in a negative way (deleting on facebook etc, which is just a bit childish) use it in a positive way and look at what you could do to get out there, meet more people, improve your love life, make new friends.
Figure out where you want to be going and set off in that direction.
Good Luck!! xx
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