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anonymous
writes:My girlfriend and I have been together for some time. She loves me dearly so do i. Things are going great but sometimes she show me her ex's messages, pics, about their relationship, and sometimes she gets very emotional when she share music or come across that is related to her ex. But she everytimes says its not about her ex. I gotta admit the ex and her lasted long before things went bad and broke up. What is she trying to hint? I know she loves me, she always shows it. But what is she trying to mean? I try to put myself into her position, i can only come out with the fact that its nothing particular, just trying to let me know to treat her better. Or what? I want to bring my best to her, this is making me curious. What is she trying to mean?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2012): My advice is to just tell her how you feel. And ask her if it means anything because she keeps talking about him. I had a similar experience where a guy I was dating talked about his kids mom constantly. Evrything was about her. He always said it was nothing. Then a few months down the line he confessed to me that he had been trying to work things out with her while I thought he still wanted me. It put me in a spot where I felt like second best. Like I couldn't compare to her. He claims he still has feelings that are very real and I can see that he does but I will never get the feeling that I'm his second choice to go away so I ended things. As hard as it was for me to see it I always knew that him talking about her so much meant that he wasn't over her. And unfortunately I learned the hard way to listen to my gut. Best of luck.
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