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*rico
writes:A girl am not fond of and a girlfriend to my friend usually like looking at me whenever am beside her and even though certain times i do offend her she would swear not to talk to me me any longer but still when am beside her she looks at me. even when i decide to stay clear from her she will create an occasion for us to discuss and later reunited. she like listening to me when am talking. if for some days i utter any word to her for some days she will start growing suspicious of me hating her which is not the case for sometimes i do behave that way and whenever she sees me eating she'll like to partake with me and she'll tell me its not love and i willl also admit it for thats not my mind. she is beautiful indeed a girl any boy will like to date for i am a very stern and reserved kind of person and all my friends including her for i once talked to her about it for she is an outgoing type but strict too in dating issues if you may understand. please i'll like you to tell me why she behaves that way towards me and what she got in her mind about me please i'll need your candid education and advice thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (24 November 2011):
 Whatever is going on in her head, at the start of your post you say you are not fond of her as a person so stay clear from her. I guess if you can be rude to her sometimes she swears she will never talk to you again, but then she keeps getting drawing to you, maybe it is because you don't hold back and you tell her what you think weather it is good or bad, this is a trait of yours that probably draws her in to you. But however you mention that she is dating your friend therefore you need to stay away from her and remember that she is taking. Don't hurt your friend by taking his girlfriend. It would be horrible. Keep your distance from her and look for a single girl.
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reader, chickpea2011  +, writes (24 November 2011):
 Hi Erico,
Nobody can say for sure what she thinks about you, or what are her intensions. I think he might have a little crush on you. But, I do not want to give you false hope. She's reserve in regards to dating, so of course she will deny her feelings for you. She's probably afraid of rejection. Maybe, she's embarassed to have feelings for a man? Who knows?
The fact that she's always looking at you, making excuses to talk to you. The fact that she denied any feelings towards you. The fact that she cares if you are mad at her, get worry if you do not give her attention. It all indicates that she has some feelings for you. Now, I cannot say for sure if this is friendship only, or romantic feelings?
Since, she denied before, only time will tell? Hope this helps!?
Good luck
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