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writes:Hello,I have been with my bf for 10 months and for the last 3 he has been complaining about my vagina being loose and says that it was not like that before. because of this he believes that i have been cheating. I have one child, 7 years old by CS, not vaginal and have had no complaints before him. He is large, so his size is not the issue and the harassment is becoming abusive because he believes that i am cheating and says that hsi dad told him a woman is always supposed to fit around her man's penis. He also says that he has never been with a woman that felt like this before and it wasn't like this in the beginning or he would not have made me his girlfriend. I have tried everything from kegels to creams and nothing works he still hates sex with me he even throws up sometimes afterwards. This hurts me so bad because I love him so much. Are there any medical reasons that could have made my vagina slack over the last 3 months?[Mod note: kept poster's original title]
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reader, sweet pea23  +, writes (11 December 2009):
i have a child who was delivered natuarlly and im the same downstairs as before.i think he is just being a jerk.if you think you have a problem then go to a doctors or do pelvic floor exercises but i doubt you do.he sounds a nasty peice of work.find someone loving and caring that will treat you right,he will end up putting you off sex.remember hes the one with the problem you should tell him to take his big penis and shove off cos hes making you miserable.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2009): Hi it sounds to me that it might be his penis/IQ that has shrunk since you started dating him. And if sex with you was seriously making him vomit he wouldnt be having sex. I think you need to remove him and his dads wisdom from your life quick smart. They both sound rather odd x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyou may be right. I know my friends and family say the things that is all a game of control and manipulation. I find it hard to believe that someone would go through the trouble, why not just leave? You are right, pinktopaz, I do need to ask myself why I even stay and let him do this to me. Thank you ladies for your responses!
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reader, person12345 +, writes (11 December 2009):
 Having a baby would slacken it, though I doubt there's really been a change. He's obviously just trying to lower your self-esteem so you will stay with him. I recommend you ditch this guy! Having more sex does NOT make your vagina looser, with him or with anyone else. Your vag doesn't need to fit his penis, it's not like he gets to imprint it once he makes you his girlfriend. If he's having such problems instead of making you scared out of your mind maybe he should freak himself out worrying if his penis shrunk. Also, if he didn't like having sex with you, he would stop. He's being controlling and manipulative and you need to get out of this. You can do so much better than him. Please find someone more deserving.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (11 December 2009):
No, but is there a medical reason as to why you're staying with an idiot like him? He throws up after sex with you??? If this is real, then I'm really in disbelief. If this is a different post than the one from yesterday about her boyfriend thinking she's cheating because her vag is suddenly different, then there is something going on with him. He's probably the one cheating in all seriousness, but putting the blame on you because he's too much of a coward to admit it! Throwing up after sex is an act of drama he's doing and it's complete BS. Women have been raped by disgusting men and probably haven't thrown up! Get rid of him now! We all choose who we have in our lives, and if you choose to have someone in your life that hurts your self esteem and think there is something wrong with you, then that's on you.
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