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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Why does nothing happen the bullies? I know a bully who bullied at school for a year she is now classic singer and with good looks and great job in big city.Another who rejected me, I lost all confidence in myself. I could go back doing sport for 2 years, he's ahead of me now like years I lost because I was so upset and he got a new girlfriend in the same year. That's really not fair.I did nothing to any of these people and I got nothing but counselling bills. I don't know if I should go back this time I'll get his level 2012 ALL over him hurting me and he didn't care about me one bit. I let him get the better of me. NOW WHAT TO DO?????????
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (5 January 2009):
They may have great jobs but that doesn't mean their life is perfect. Trust me, you have no idea what they really go through or what is really going on behind the scenes. I believe in karma and know for a fact some people who were not so nice to me back in the day are paying for it now, in one way or another. Just having a terrific job and great looks isn't everything. Most bullies in school are bullies for a reason, their life at home is pretty rough or they are so insecure they need to take it out on someone else. It's the truth. So live your life and ignore what they are up to. The greatest revenge is living well. And right now you are still letting them have an effect on you, don't let them still bully you years later. They aren't worth your thoughts. Good luck, truly.
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