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writes:How can I forget about my ex-girlfriend?I really loved her. And she said she loved me with all her heart. But we broke up in the end, she never gave me a good reason. She just said that feelings faded away. I have been sad for a few months now. The biggest challenge is that, we go to the same school, we have classes together, and I see her everyday. It makes it really hard for me to forget her. Another huge problem is that I see her and her new boyfriend everyday. Sometimes, when i dont see her, i think that I have forgotten her, but whenever i see her in the hallway, even a glance causes my heart to twitch. And she seems to have no problem getting over me at all. which makes me even more sad. How do i get over this lost relationship?
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reader, How  +, writes (25 April 2009):
hay u know what i had been in the same setuation yas i know it is hard to forget some one u really love not only love but for some one u have incisive feeling but u know what there r some ways how to completly forget her that is just be cheer do some thing else try to forget her and make ur self believe that she is not the only one who brakes ur hear even don't exist there r a lot of sweet candy girls who break ur heart be wit all the time wit u. don't mail her don't try to talk to her or don't even see her even if she is looking at u pretend like u completly forget her just don't see her don't try to talk yo her to mail her and even show her that u feel the same way or that u don't have any incisive feelings for her any more
then she might do some thing to reunite or u will completly forget her!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah, a friend of mine said, maybe its not her that i miss, I just miss the presence of someone there caring for me. This is really confusing. But yeah, I have to agree with all ur opinions, to focus on something else. But like its easier said than done, cuz since she's always around in school, Its kinda distracting at times.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2009): i know how you feel when you love someone and they don't love you back. Keep busy and just do other things, be with your friends, if you leave her alone sometimes after a while they come back but if they don't their be another. Don't call her or e-mail her,
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reader, dt1213  +, writes (5 January 2009):
Break ups are never easy but with time, you can overcome them. It seems that you are forced to see this girl everyday, making it impossible to keep your distance. I would tell you to pretend that she isnt there although that would deffinately be challanging. I personally think that once you fall in love with someone, it never completely goes away. Its okay for you to see her differently than everyone else but it isnt okay for you to be unhappy. Just remember that you have a long time ahead of you. You are most likely going to be in a bunch more relationships before you find one that will last forever. Thats just life. Dont let one person bring you down. In your situation i would most likely either try to replace her and move on. Find someone that you can fall in love with just as easy as you fell in love with her (trust me its not impossible although it may feel that way right now) OR you can always sit down and have a long talk with her and let her know how you feel. Considering she has a boyfriend now, i dont know how she would react but i wish you luck on whatever you choose to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI read your answer, I know, I tried that, after I broke up, a long time friend of mine, asked me out, although I didn't really have feelings for her that way, I went out with her on a couple dates (to give it a try), but just didnt work, like, I just can't seem to like her.
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