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writes:Why does my husband continue to fantisize over younger women? I guess I am just sick of it. It started with his searches on my computer and when caught, he went out and bought a Blackberry and spends all of his time on the Blackberry. He tells me I am the women of his dreams, but he continues to keep looking for something I am not. And when we are together, I feel that sex with me is not with me, it is with whoever he had found searching that day. Why do men say "Oh it is just something that men do"? Bullshit... If women did that to men and we thought of other men while having sex with you and told you that you were the only one we thought of while having sex, how would you feel. Plus, I think it is creepy for men to look at other young girls when they have daughters that are the same age. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2010): I agree...creepy. I've never been able to wrap my head around that idea.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2010): It will destroy your marriage,my xpartner did exactly the samething from computer to phone and no matter how sexy i made myself it was to late he was hooked
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (21 August 2010):
 This is may be something that men do, but it's not something they SHOULD do. It's very easy to become addicted if he continues this way.
Try and find a time when both of you can go out on a date, dress up, make yourself look beautiful and make him see you.
I hope that helps.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (21 August 2010):
 I think if this is something that bothers you and you can't deal with, you need to really let him know you are absolutely not OK with this. I'm sure he'd be pretty horrified to know that you can tell he's not thinking of you during sex. You're right, this isn't just "something all men do." That's just an excuse. What happens when you confront him?
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