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writes:So my boyfriend seems so obssesed about my past since he wasnt the guy i lost my virginity to last night we had a couple of drinks and then we had sex after we were done he gave me oral sex and fingered me he then the next day told me he was able to put 3 fingers in me and wanted to break up with me? I dont know what to do i really love him i been with him 1 year and a half and he was my best friend for 2 years i dont wanna loose him help me plzzz
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (4 December 2014):
 What an IGNORANT douche!
First of all, the reason he was able to fit 3 fingers was MOST LIKELY because you were relaxed from alcohol & because you TRUSTED him - the VAGINA being a muscle, so therefore being relaxed would make THAT so much easier for him.
He is one of those ABSOLUTELY IGNORANT guy who thinks that if a vagina isn't tight it MUST be because there have been a TON of other dicks in there.
A DICK doesn't make a vagina lose or relaxed. Just like penises comes in ALL sizes, shapes and colors, so does vaginas.
By his logic, a guy with a big penis have either had a LOT of sex, or no sex at all. THE SIZE of a guys penis... has nothing to do with HOW MUCH sex or WHAT kind of sex he's had...
What a total immature dumb-ass. Sorry, I would take that break up and let this guy go. YOU CAN NOT FIX stupid. There just isn't enough duct tape out there.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (3 December 2014):
 It sounds like he has RJ (retroactive jealousy) or that he's a very judgmental person.
I figure he assumes since he was able to penetrate you with three fingers you are a slut and loose and therefore he is not interested in you as a gf.
HIS loss.
He is wrong.
why would you want to stay with a man who thinks you are a whore?
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