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writes:Well, ive got this boyfriend who is absolutely amazing. He always looks out for me, he always puts me first, and its a very strong relationship. Were not pressuring each other, were not constantly arguing, and were not embarrassed about hiding anything. the only problem is, we've been going out for 7 months almost, and i still havent been invited over to his. He always comes round mine, and i know his house is a little out-of-the-way, but ive met his family already, and they seem really nice, even though he doesnt get on with them.Maybe this has something to do with it, but I just wonder why he never invites me round...any ideas why or how i could comfront him without sounding demanding? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2015): Maybe is ex still comes over and he aint over her. Please be careful
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reader, Nat34 +, writes (23 September 2011):
Hi, I had a similar issue with my boyfriend and it turned out that he was anxious about having me and my children around in case we judged him or didn't have a good time. Your boyfriend may be anxious about the fact that he doesn't get on with his family. I used to moan and say "you never invite us to yours but you are always at mine" until a friend said to ask him directly. I reworded it as "when are you going to host us for the weekend". His reply was "how about next weekend?". Try it and be direct, that way, he has to specify a date. Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionokay thanks guys =D
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reader, nE3dH3Lp?? +, writes (8 March 2010):
Its sounds like he thinks you expect alot from him. He may embarresed about certain thing like him room or just his house in general. You could ask him in a casual way as to not sound demanding =
"I was wonder if we could do something this weekend? Like _______________?Then maybe we could go to yours since my parents are doing something at home. I dont mind if its messy or anything blah blah blah." get it?
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reader, boo22 +, writes (8 March 2010):
 Just say something like Is everything ok at home? If he says yeah or asks you why you ask, just say cos I've never been,I'm wondering what you're trying to save me from.
Try and make it a bit light hearted and not in any way confrontational. He might not want to spend any time there himself so that's the reason he's always at yours and he's hoping you don't mention it.
After 7 months, it's about time you knew why.,
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