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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Dear CupidMy bf often makes plans for us to go for vacation, but never really executes the plan. Whenever i ask he dismisses saying that he'll get to me on the dates and then forgets conviently. Yesterday i asked him again, since i needed a break from work, he said im keep on bugging him and annoying him.Actually this is the first time i asked about our vacation in months, we dont have any financial trouble, we can afford vacation for 3 days. After the fight, he stromed out on me. Why is he always reluctant whenever i ask him about something. I dont ask him much at all. Did i push him hard on this vacation.What should i do now, please help me.
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reader, NORA B +, writes (10 May 2013):
He is being very unfair to you with either breaking promises or just forgetting the whole thing .You have 2.choices.I-is to stay putting up with his current behaviour which is upseting you.2.Is if he decides to cancel a outing is to go on your own.However that decision would depend on how strong your relationship is.That is a decision that you will have to decide. Kind Wishes.Nora B.
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