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writes: There comes a point in your life when you realize: who matters, who never did, who won't anymore... and who always will. So, don't worry about people from your past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your present or future. But when it comes to Love, can you be able to fight that feeling. Can you actually look back and say that person doesn’t matter to me because they were not meant in my life. Can you say no to someone you love when you know they are not meant for you. Can you say no to the hurt you feel when that person is not there for you. Why does it hurt, why gamble your feelings in this game called life. Is it because we are stupid or just Love struck???????????? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, birdynumnums +, writes (30 September 2008):
Life isn't fair. You can't make someone love you, not even kin, and you can't help but love someone if you do. Yes, it's not fair, but that's life. I can tell you, it does get easier with age, and accepting life as it comes gets easier, but you do have to learn to accept things as they are, and be thankful for what you have, instead of living with regrets and yearning for what you don't have or have lost.
That is the simple secret to life - Be grateful; Appreciate what you have, and just let the rest go.
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