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writes:I have been in a very close and loving relationship with a wonderful man for over two years and just found out that my man had been seeing one of his ex-girlfriends for a while early on in our relationship. I guess it really shouldn't matter now - over two years later but I figured it out by something that he said that gave me a definite time line as to him being with her in during our early days. When he realized what he said, he admitted that he had seen her but only in the very beginning of our relationship and has not been in touch since. In my deepest gut I do not feel that there is another woman in his life but me. I feel that I should not make a big deal of it but I am a bit taken aback and hurt at my discovery. How do I just let it go?
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reader, Spedie0802 +, writes (30 September 2008):
Just let it go. You said it was very early in your relationship..at that time, I am sure neither one of you knew you'd be together two years later. Don't sweat the small stuff!
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reader, blackberry008 +, writes (30 September 2008):
 Don't let the past ruin your present relationship. Everyone needs another chance. He deserves another chance and give him one more but you are also giving yourself another chance to be hurt again - whenever this will happen again.
Observe. He admitted it anyway, and it is better than lying.
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