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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Does he still care? Why is he doing this?me and my ex split up 3 month ago a lot was said and done to the point of we couldn't talk with out arguing.at the time of us splitting we worked together and for 2 weeks he had to b in the same room as me and had to leave then over nite he wanted to b were ever i was and looked at me all the time with out talking to me tho. i left this place for another job,2 month after we split we were on a night out with mutual friends he stared and watched me dancing but couldn't speak to me, as i was buyin the group drinks i bought him one to and he refused it.after this night out I broke off all contact. 4 weeks later I saw him at my old work place when I called in for some things I needed and he stared at me the next day he passed me in the car and then phoned me , I texted him back asking what he had wanted and he never answered. a few days later I texted apologizing for my actions from when we had split up and he said it was both of us really not just me. when I asked what he had phoned for he said he didn't no really. i again texted back sayin well i just wanted to say sorry nd hope it didnt cause too much trouble goodbye, to this he replied u did but didnt agh i dunno anymore,a couple of days later i had to text and ask him for a character reference as he was my direct line manager, i offered him my e-mail nd my personal address to just send it to me and he said he wud meet me to give it to me, when this day came he said its just a case of finding the time so again i offered my e-mail to save time and he said no il meet u on monday in my dinner hour. why is he insisting on meetin up to give it to me instead of e-mailing or posting it, is this not a bit strange after recent events of him contacting me etc?
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (23 May 2010):
 I wouldn't try to analyse his reasons for wanting to do it face to face too much. You will soon know what his reasons were as I'm sure he will say something.
Listen it takes two to tango. There are ALWAYS two sides to a story so don't take all the blame for this breakup on your shoulders. Also don't be tempted to jump back into the relationship because he is staring at you and looking wistful. The reasons that broke you up in the first are still there and will always be there. Reconnected relationships seldom work and usually case more heartache the second time round than they did the first time round.
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