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Why does he want to end it....? Is he afraid of being hurt??

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Question - (20 February 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 21 February 2008)
A female Bahamas age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I love my boyfriend and he loves me. He cried and told me he is jealous when i go out with my friend(male), now he want to end our relationship.

Could you tell me why and is he afraid of being hurt?

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A female reader, farrah777 Australia +, writes (21 February 2008):

If you care about him enough, then sit down with him and talk through this, if he can be so upset about this than it obviously shows he really cares for you.

remember your he's girlfriend, and he wants to feel like you are, no one wants there girlfriend out with another guy even know it may be innocent.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (20 February 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntYou are not his type. He does not like girls going out with other males.

He cannot control you and so denies his love for you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2008):

It can be very very uncomfortable for our partners if we go out with someone of the opposite sex who we have been mates with for a long time. But they are our mates and we shouldnt just drop them because a new partner comes along. Dont be pushed into dropping friends and if he feels uncomfortable with it now, it wont get better in the future, so if he needs to go, then bye bye.

take care

xx

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A female reader, duskyrowe United Kingdom +, writes (20 February 2008):

duskyrowe agony auntIn my opinion he is being controlling and manipulative, by dictating to you about who you should be friends with. What an absolute wuss this guy is by turning on the waterworks and emotionally blackmailing you to end your friendship with this other guy. He is living in la la land by expecting you or any other girlfriend he may have in the future to not have men as friends.

I say dump this little insecure boy and find a REAL MAN who trusts you 100%, as I think if you did carry on with this relationship he would strip you of any freedom and being completely anal wanting to be with you 24/7. Good luck. Dusky xxx.

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