Why does he wait for me in parking lot, but says nothing?

A female age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I'm in a FWB situation with a co-worker (we work in separate departments). One day he asked me what time I usually arrive at work so we could meet at a location inside the building in the morning. Well, I ran a little late and I saw him waiting for me in the parking lot, because when I pulled up he turned his lights off, but he didn't approach me until later in the day. Then, yesterday, I asked him if he was coming to work today and he said yes. Well, I again came later than he did (90% of the time I arrive first), and there he was waiting again, turning his lights off when I pulled into a spot (we couldn't see each other up close because it's a big parking lot, so he may not be aware that I know what he's doing). I usually go to my room 1st for a couple of minutes only before I sign in, so today I noticed he signed in before me, which means he probably got out of his car right after I entered the building. What does that mean?

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