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female
age
36-40,
*weetkygurl
writes: We've been seeing each other on and off for a few months. I love him and I can't even tell him because he flips out because I care about him so much. We've slept together a few times but he still doesn't want to be in a relationship with me. He keeps coming in and out of my life. It had been a month and out of the blue he contacted me again. I'm heartbroken, I don't understand. Here is our conversation the other night on facebook? Why does he do this?i told you it won't let me read your messages on there.i said so it is not ok for me to try to be your friend?i guess, but it's hard to just be someones friend when you have feelings for them.ok ill leave you alone thenhere we go again. i'm just telling you the truth. so are you saying you don't have feelings for me?i'm not saying that but i don't want what u want right nowwhat do you want right now? i'm goin to take a shower now just to let you know i'm not here. i have to go to the school in the morning.someone to hang out with someone to do things with but i don't want to answer to someone all the time and if i want to go hang out with someone elseOk, but I ain't fucking you. Lol It just kinda hurt that that's always what you wanted.DID I Not try to talk you out of it ... So no that wasn't what I wantedYeah but I did it because I care about you. It meant something to me. Because we fooled around on the first night I think you thought of me as your personal whore.Ur making this hardI'm sorryWell I didn't think I treated you like a whoreIf that's the way u feel then sorryIt's just that's all you wanted to even talk about. The last night we hung out you never even kissed me. It seems like you always wanted to jump straight to fucking. All I want is to be with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2011): Girl, your not gonna change him. He doesnt want to be in a relationship. If you wanna meet up with him every now and then for booty call, then thats up to you. He made his choice, he can take you or leave you...hes fine with that. So make your choice. Move on.
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