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writes: My boyfriend is always cutting me short on the phone during the day, but we talk for hours at night. What does this mean? Is there another girl? Reply to this Question
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (1 June 2006):
 Are you ringing him when he is in work/school/college....?
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (1 June 2006):
 Well at least you were honest lost and alone... but hope you dont make a habit of it!
Just because hes cutting you short during the day doesn have to mean that hes cheating. He could just be busy during the day, and wants to wait until he has more time to be able to talk to you. So in the evening he less stressed, more rested and able to devote more time to you. I know at times my man can be a little shorter during the day, almost like im gonna call you later, let me get on with my day, but then we do live together so at times i guess he thinks why couldnt she wait till later to tell me that. Us girls will talk all day everyday, where as men like to get and do stuff and then chat! Take it easy dont stress too much, or you will find that you are looking for it!
Take care x
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (1 June 2006):
 In this case I don't know but I can say that when I was cheating on my girl I used to call her just to get her out of the way. That means I would call and get a quick rundown of her day and mine just to let her know I was thinking about her. Then I would use some lame excuse to get off of the phone and call the other woman. Once I was through talking to the other girl(which I would call midday or a little later) I would then have plenty of time to talk to my girlfriend but if for some reason the other girl would call while I was on the phone I would say I was sleepy or I had an early morning and get off the phone to talk to the other girl. If this sounds familiar you might want to check it out. The way to catch him or to actually find out is to change the norm. Don't be a creature of habit. Do something different. Go by his house later or call at different times or better yet suprise him. This will throw off his whole system and its not investigating its just doing something different so you can't be accussed of snooping and if you are there is definitely something wrong. I might get kicked out of the players club for this little tidbit but if it helps you at all it was worth it. Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2006): You haven't stated whether he's working or not. Maybe he cuts you short during the day because it's difficult for him to talk while at work. In the evening he's probably more relaxed and finds it easier to talk then.I don't know the full story.
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