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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid, I am totally a shy and reserved girl. I met a guy once in achurch community festival he was the one who approached me introduced himself and I did the same...i carried on with my work still in festival and I caught him staring at me several timeswhenevwr I would look at him he would smile...when it qas time for everyone to get down dancing he approached me again asking me to dance with him being a gentleman he asked my permission whether he can hold my hand while dancing and guess what that was my first time to stand so close to a guy and hold his hands too as I have never been in any kind of relatoonship with guys I felt nervous but he made me feel comfortable.when he was about to leave he came to me handed me some chocolate bars waved goodbye and left I felt odd. The next day our church member had asked me and my friend to visit a house to collect some things that belonged to church from that house as I entered the house this guy was there and came to know he lived there he was acting akwardly he just kept staring at me whenever I would look at him he would turn away when we left the house he didnt even say a word just kept staring when we were half of our way to the gate I heard someone whistling at us I ignored and when it was repeated again I just turned around to look this buy was standing on the terrace and waving at me/us it was awkward again.after that incident I just couldnt forget the way he looked at me I kept thinking what was all this about why would he stare at me when I am near him and not talk to me. after that incident we have met several times in our church he would just greet me and thats it. He has fully disturbed my mind I cant concentrate on anything and no one has disturbed my mind and heart like him I think I like him but cant understand his intentions. I dont want to misunderstand it as anything and fall in love blindly as this will be my first love I want to be careful...i am too shy to approach him I want to know why he is behaving with me like this? Please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2013): When a man finds a woman attractive , they will look at her, they do it without realising no matter how hard they try as most men are stimulated by images (hence why men love pornography) . So in other words he fancies you or finds you attractive :) :) the turning away when u catch him looking at you is a good sign!!! Most people look downwards when they've looked at someone they fancy... by the way I know how u feel, there's a guy at work like this, however I'm in a relationship and wouldn't be unfaithful but he does make me lose a breath sometimes when he looks at me.. No problem with having eye candy :)
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