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writes:hello im thirteen,,,i know im young but in love with this boy. we have been hanging out 4 a while now n we are/were ready to start the relationship. ok the reason why were werent in the relationship already is because of my last relationship which i had gotten played!!!!!!! then i was taalking 2 one of his friends n they told me that i had competion with another girl. so i asked him n he told me yes that he liked us both!!!!! so we were talking and he asked me if i wanted to hang out with him n i said sure then he said that he was going to the movies wit HER it was almost like he was rubbing it in my face everybody i love him so much and told him justy 2 be with her because i dont wanna be hurt but i love him alot but its the way i feel but i dont know wat to do now ilove him more then i love him more then i love myself... now im sittiing in my room because im depressed and i dont know what to do wit my self!!!! please help me out i need advice on what 2 do i know he like s me 2 and i really hurt him when i told him that but i feel if i didnt do it i would of got hurt please advice me thankyou......
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reader, silvershocker123 +, writes (24 May 2009):
Bobbles is absolutely right...
He is just having the time of his life knowing that two girls are genuinely in love with him now there are two choices that you can make. One is to ask him to make a choice between the two of you and if he says i don't know or her then you walk away. And the second choice is tell him that you really love him, but you don't want to be hurt and tell him to be with her and that you have no feelings for him any longer. The second choice being the best because without making you look insignificant it'll let you know whether if he really likes you and is willing to make that choice for you.
And sweetie you are only 13 you should be having fun go out with your friends do things that are stupid and fun... not getting hurt and feeling depressed over a guy. Trust me you will have plenty of time for that. Once you turn twenty there will be plenty of time to cry over relationship not now... if you don't beleive me take a stroll around this page and read the emotional woes of people. Forget about him i am sure you will come across a better guy soon.... may be even one of the Jona's brothers...lol
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (24 May 2009):
 You think you had gotten played before? Well open up your eyes sweetie. Leave him be or it's going to happen again. Why do you think you're in love with this boy? Does he hold the door for you when you're leaving? Does he pull out your chair for you before you sit down? I didn't think so.
I know you feel like you're in love now but with some more time and experience you'll see what love is meant to be like. It's not you chasing after some cute boy and hoping he's not seeing other girls.
It's the bond that two mature people can share and grow with. It's teaching each other new things and being satisfied in the worst of times.
The boy you've described seems like the cute kinda guy with lots of friends and who girls gush over. He also sounds like the kind of guy that will hurt you and not care and who will play you.
Think about it, he doesn't feel the same way that you do if you love him more than yourself and he's shoving it in your face that you're not his only one. He's just not worth it
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